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Post by hi224 on May 12, 2019 22:28:31 GMT
right but financials don't do much for me as im never driven by wealth. praise makes me feel like i really don't deserve anything. criticism hasn't had a profound appeal on me at all, especially if it isn't very helpful, and recognition makes me nervous. I get it, really, all of these may make you feel bad or not have much effect, BUT they dont have the same impact. from what you are describing it looks like money has the least bad effect on you thus may serve as the biggest accelerator UNLESS feeling nervous or like you dont deserve anything etc makes you work harder/improve? Also learning to accept praise/compliments may be a really effective first step in feeling better overall. ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) probably but im too self loathing.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on May 13, 2019 13:37:11 GMT
I would have said money, but since I make so little of it, I'm going to go with something that wasn't an option on your list: Accomplishment. what happens when you accomplish something/how do you j ow you accomolished something? most likely this will fall under praise. I'm an artist without an audience (LOL!) so when I finish something I usually praise myself (LOL!).
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Post by Nora on May 13, 2019 14:14:51 GMT
For those who picked criticism and didn’t speak on it yet would you be comfortable sharing more on how that works in your world and why it serves as the best motivator/ accelerator for you? I am really interested to learn how other people work.
Thanks.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2019 16:37:47 GMT
at work...a raise would be nice...and praise too....doesn't happen
i guess if i sucked at my job i wouldn't still be here...but that's a poor motivator....
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