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Post by lenlenlen1 on Oct 24, 2018 15:42:38 GMT
Nora Damn I can't imagine that happens much in more civilized areas (like you said it did not happen in Europe much if at all) especially with those comments happening to you once every week or two. whatever area your in I would imagine has lower standards than the bulk of the USA for sure. to be clear... that 'lower standards' comment is nothing against you as I was just saying it's those people who have lower standards in the sense you just can't treat people like they treat you. basically it just lowers them by acting that way towards you etc. I know people don't always have the best thoughts going through their heads, but it's just not decent of people do act like they do as they clearly have no respect for you (and probably women in general) saying that stuff as they basically see women as sex objects. they are probably consumed by lust. but I wish you the best in the future I think Nora lives in NYC. It not that the class of people there is low. Its that there are SO MANY people there that you're going to get a greater number of every kind of person. As a fellow former NYCer I know of her experience.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2018 15:55:34 GMT
so imagine you see a girl walking down the street and decide to talk to her. you approach her and say politely "excuse me, sorry to bother you, i dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" the girl looks at you and say "why, why do you want to take me out for dinner?" What do you respond? Probably something like "I'm horribly lonely, and you'd get a free meal out of it."
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Post by kuatorises on Oct 24, 2018 16:12:55 GMT
I would probably be caught offguard, because isn't it obvious why you ask somebody out?
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Post by Pep Streebeck on Oct 24, 2018 19:05:52 GMT
I would say "I don't - you just asked me!!!"
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Post by Feologild Oakes on Oct 24, 2018 19:26:46 GMT
so imagine you see a girl walking down the street and decide to talk to her. you approach her and say politely "excuse me, sorry to bother you, i dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" the girl looks at you and say "why, why do you want to take me out for dinner?" What do you respond?
I would not respond i would just look at her and just walk away.
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Post by Nalkarj on Oct 24, 2018 19:37:46 GMT
so imagine you see a girl walking down the street and decide to talk to her. you approach her and say politely "excuse me, sorry to bother you, i dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" the girl looks at you and say "why, why do you want to take me out for dinner?" What do you respond? I really have no idea, but this whole scenario sounds like a Frasier episode.
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Post by Nora on Oct 24, 2018 20:24:26 GMT
so imagine you see a girl walking down the street and decide to talk to her. you approach her and say politely "excuse me, sorry to bother you, i dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" the girl looks at you and say "why, why do you want to take me out for dinner?" What do you respond? I really have no idea, but this whole scenario sounds like a Frasier episode. haha thats a good association. it somehow fits.
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Post by Nora on Oct 24, 2018 20:26:23 GMT
I would probably be caught offguard, because isn't it obvious why you ask somebody out? true, but i was caufhr offhuard too, its not like i planned to ask him “why” it just happened to be my natural first reaction. he handled it well though.
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Post by Nora on Oct 24, 2018 20:28:18 GMT
so imagine you see a girl walking down the street and decide to talk to her. you approach her and say politely "excuse me, sorry to bother you, i dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" the girl looks at you and say "why, why do you want to take me out for dinner?" What do you respond? Probably something like "I'm horribly lonely, and you'd get a free meal out of it." and i would be like: ok so... where CAN we go for a keto dinner under 300 calories? man i would be a cheap date
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Oct 24, 2018 20:55:47 GMT
Probably something like "I'm horribly lonely, and you'd get a free meal out of it." and i would be like: ok so... where CAN we go for a keto dinner under 300 calories? man i would be a cheap date And you think that would be his only intention. To treat you to dinner.
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Post by Nora on Oct 24, 2018 21:48:08 GMT
And you think that would be his only intention. To treat you to dinner. Gee, I feel like we already played this game. It went something like this:Nora, it seems as if you are an easy pickup interested to learn: what from this thread would make you say that? care to be more particular? i would love to know what exactly drove you to that conclusion. its interesting to me to learn how someones mind works. You can't look up your own statements? Ok, i see you are not interested in backing up your conclusion, so, ok….? Thank you? Geez, you've been picked up by TOTAL strangers on the street because they fed you a 'line' That's slutsville, my dear. you seem to have problems understanding written text or are prone to jumping to conclusions or both. anyway, hope that doesn't make your life difficult. for your convenience I include also the hypothetical reiteration of it, may save us some time.
And you think that would be his only intention. To treat you to dinner. interested to learn: what from this thread would make you say that? care to be more particular? i would love to know what exactly drove you to that conclusion. its interesting to me to learn how someones mind works. You can't look up your own statements? Ok, i see you are not interested in backing up your conclusion, so, ok….? Thank you? And you think that would be his only intention. To treat you to dinner. you seem to have problems understanding written text or are prone to jumping to conclusions or both. anyway, hope that doesn't make your life difficult.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Oct 24, 2018 21:52:01 GMT
And you think that would be his only intention. To treat you to dinner. Gee, I feel like we already played this game. It went something like this:Nora, it seems as if you are an easy pickup interested to learn: what from this thread would make you say that? care to be more particular? i would love to know what exactly drove you to that conclusion. its interesting to me to learn how someones mind works. You can't look up your own statements? Ok, i see you are not interested in backing up your conclusion, so, ok….? Thank you? Geez, you've been picked up by TOTAL strangers on the street because they fed you a 'line' That's slutsville, my dear. you seem to have problems understanding written text or are prone to jumping to conclusions or both. anyway, hope that doesn't make your life difficult. for your convenience I include also the hypothetical reiteration of it, may save us some time.
And you think that would be his only intention. To treat you to dinner. interested to learn: what from this thread would make you say that? care to be more particular? i would love to know what exactly drove you to that conclusion. its interesting to me to learn how someones mind works. You can't look up your own statements? Ok, i see you are not interested in backing up your conclusion, so, ok….? Thank you? And you think that would be his only intention. To treat you to dinner. you seem to have problems understanding written text or are prone to jumping to conclusions or both. anyway, hope that doesn't make your life difficult. Seems you went to a lot of trouble NOT to answer my question.
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Post by Nora on Oct 24, 2018 21:56:47 GMT
them1ghtyhumph no trouble, dont worry, i enjoy coding. certainly more than answering nonquestions indicating someone has problems with written text or likes to jump to conclusion or both and is also not interested in a real discussion, as showcased above. so, why bother taking it seriously. i would rather play with snippets of code.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Oct 24, 2018 22:18:45 GMT
them1ghtyhumph no trouble, dont worry, i enjoy coding. certainly more than answering nonquestions indicating someone has problems with written text or likes to jump to conclusion or both and is also not interested in a real discussion, as showcased above. so, why bother taking it seriously. i would rather play with snippets of code. It's okay. You don't need to answer.
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Post by Super-predator on Oct 24, 2018 23:58:18 GMT
so imagine you see a girl walking down the street and decide to talk to her. you approach her and say politely "excuse me, sorry to bother you, i dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" the girl looks at you and say "why, why do you want to take me out for dinner?" What do you respond? "So that I can get you intoxicated on fermented grape juice, relocate you to my place of residence and fornicate with you."
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Post by Nora on Oct 25, 2018 0:07:51 GMT
so imagine you see a girl walking down the street and decide to talk to her. you approach her and say politely "excuse me, sorry to bother you, i dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" the girl looks at you and say "why, why do you want to take me out for dinner?" What do you respond? "So that I can get you intoxicated on fermented grape juice, relocate you to my place of residence and fornicate with you." original. i like it. i dont drink so it wouldnt work but i appreciate the effort.
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Post by BATouttaheck on Oct 25, 2018 2:13:10 GMT
"excuse me, sorry to bother you, I dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" Red flag right there. Screams pick-up line from a practiced pick-up artist. (imo, anyway)
sorry not to be responding to the actual question but this whole scenerio seems so filled with potential problems and dangers , especially if you are as trusting off line as you seem to be here. Nora You are handling humph magnificently btw ! BUT he isn't there live and in person
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Post by Nalkarj on Oct 25, 2018 2:18:41 GMT
"excuse me, sorry to bother you, I dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" Red flag right there. Screams pick-up line from a practiced pick-up artist. (imo, anyway)
sorry not to be responding to the actual question but this whole scenerio seems so filled with potential problems and dangers , especially if you are as trusting off line as you seem to be here. Nora You are handling humph magnificently btw ! BUT he isn't there live and in person But it would work as a Frasier episode, no?
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Post by BATouttaheck on Oct 25, 2018 2:29:05 GMT
Nalkarj For Frasier sure, but for real people who are total total strangers on a real city street in a real 2018 … perhaps not so much ? It's dangerous enough dealing with people you know.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Oct 25, 2018 4:11:49 GMT
"excuse me, sorry to bother you, I dont do this often, please hear me out: I would love to ask you out to dinner, could I take you out to dinner?" Red flag right there. Screams pick-up line from a practiced pick-up artist. (imo, anyway)
sorry not to be responding to the actual question but this whole scenerio seems so filled with potential problems and dangers , especially if you are as trusting off line as you seem to be here. Nora You are handling humph magnificently btw ! BUT he isn't there live and in person I could say something REALLY NASTY about Nora's handling of the situation. I'll just say she is handling me by not answering my question.
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