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Post by thekindercarebear on Aug 13, 2019 18:35:26 GMT
If it’s a special needs kid - I would endure it. If it’s clearly a misbehaving Child, I would most likely give the family dirty looks and endure it. I don’t agree that families with special needs kids should stay home. is this the first time we actually agree on something?
i mean i look at the parents with special need kids and i believe all those parents want is to be able to spend some time with their kids that other parents sometimes take for granted: out in public, hopefully free from scorn and shame, making some memories.
as long as they aren't in my personal space physically, i'd endure it.
if they knock over my coke tho, IT IS ON!
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Post by suzi on Aug 13, 2019 18:42:11 GMT
obvious answer is obvious blame trump I figured you would have thoughts and pray over it.
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Post by kaleamahalo on Aug 13, 2019 18:42:51 GMT
If it’s a special needs kid - I would endure it. If it’s clearly a misbehaving Child, I would most likely give the family dirty looks and endure it. I don’t agree that families with special needs kids should stay home. is this the first time we actually agree on something?
i mean i look at the parents with special need kids and i believe all those parents want is to be able to spend some time with their kids that other parents sometimes take for granted: out in public, hopefully free from scorn and shame, making some memories.
as long as they aren't in my personal space psychically, i'd endure it.
if they knock over my coke tho, IT IS ON!
I do find it weird we agree - especially the part where you say “free from acorn and shame” considering you frequently use “retard” on this board. But if we are close enough in proximity and the family is friendly - we try to engage them rather than merely tolerate and endure them.
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Post by edzeppelin on Aug 13, 2019 18:43:14 GMT
since some posters here CLAIM to be kind and understanding to any and all plights, let's see. Easy. Send the waitress over to ask them if it would be okay to treat their monkey to a banana. Who would be offended by that? You're offering them something yummy for free and congratulating them on successfully potty-training that ... thing enough to take it out in public. I know all about it. I've been a noisy kid my whole fucking life.
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Post by thekindercarebear on Aug 13, 2019 18:45:04 GMT
since some posters here CLAIM to be kind and understanding to any and all plights, let's see. Easy. Send the waitress over to ask them if it would be okay to treat their monkey to a banana. Who would be offended by that? You're offering them something yummy for free and congratulating them on successfully potty-training that ... thing enough to take it out in public. I know all about it. I've been a noisy kid my whole fucking life. with my 7 dexterity, i was the kid who - 9 out of 10 times - knocked over my drink...
my parents were very understanding and never beat me for it.
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Post by Geddy on Aug 13, 2019 18:46:43 GMT
Why not as should we just lock them all up in their room? They can eat at home or better acquaint themselves with Ubereats, justeat or any of the other 1billion takeaway startups online. You're all heart. 🙁
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Post by thekindercarebear on Aug 13, 2019 18:50:56 GMT
They can eat at home or better acquaint themselves with Ubereats, justeat or any of the other 1billion takeaway startups online. You're all heart. 🙁 lol
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Post by factchecker2point0 on Aug 13, 2019 19:00:10 GMT
If it’s a special needs kid - I would endure it. If it’s clearly a misbehaving Child, I would most likely give the family dirty looks and endure it. I don’t agree that families with special needs kids should stay home. This is how I would be inclined to react, especially at a "Family Restaurant" or a chain of some sort.
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Post by edzeppelin on Aug 13, 2019 19:03:51 GMT
Considering your penchant for playing spelling police among other troll tricks regarding my posts, you can see why I was and still am skeptical. but i am not the type to hold grudges AND i appreciate good humor when i see it. other posters have said much worse things than you ever have to and about me, i still let them be AND give them kudos when kudos are due. anyway, it was a sincere compliment to your comment. i lol'ed when i saw it.
kudos.
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Post by thekindercarebear on Aug 13, 2019 19:07:04 GMT
but i am not the type to hold grudges AND i appreciate good humor when i see it. other posters have said much worse things than you ever have to and about me, i still let them be AND give them kudos when kudos are due. anyway, it was a sincere compliment to your comment. i lol'ed when i saw it.
kudos.
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Post by thekindercarebear on Aug 13, 2019 22:17:00 GMT
Is this an invite for me to bring my wisdom and humor to this board? 😁
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Post by Catman on Aug 13, 2019 22:20:13 GMT
Is this an invite for me to bring my wisdom and humor to this board? 😁 That would be exciting.
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Post by BATouttaheck on Aug 13, 2019 22:58:40 GMT
Any wisdom would be a welcome change and humor would be an un-expected bonus.
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Post by simianscrote on Aug 13, 2019 23:39:54 GMT
oh please, there is no evidence of that. And certainly no evidence of thousands and thousands celebrating in the streets of Jersey City like Trump claimed. I just showed you the evidence and here is some more: EXCLUSIVE: Some Jersey City Muslims did celebrate 9/11, cop and residents say.If you were alive at the time you would have seen and heard about this, so don't fucking lie about it now trying to be politically correct. total lie, there were not thousands and thousands of muslim celebrating
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Post by simianscrote on Aug 13, 2019 23:43:42 GMT
So you have no link of the reporter retracting his story? Just like I thought. We both knew you didn't, and we both know Trump lied about seeing Muslims celebrating on 911. Even the right doesn't try claiming this anymore. Fact-checking Trump's claim that thousands in New Jersey cheered when World Trade Center tumbledBy Lauren Carroll on Sunday, November 22nd, 2015 at 6:17 p.m. And you say the NY Times reported it? Okay, please post that link. So I can catch you IN ANOTHER LIE, because we both know no such link is forthcoming from you. 9/11 occurred. Muslims celebrated. Trump pointed it out, citing the reporter. The reporter lied and denied his own story. Trump mocked him because Trump was right and the reporter was a liar. End of Story. trump claimed he saw a minimum of 4,000, total fucking lie
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Post by simianscrote on Aug 13, 2019 23:47:51 GMT
shows a photo of the middle east, but still does show any evidence of 4,000 minimum muslims celebrating in NJ. fucking is a fucking lie
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Post by BATouttaheck on Aug 13, 2019 23:51:15 GMT
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Post by Stammerhead on Aug 14, 2019 0:13:00 GMT
Once I knew and understood what the problem was I’d probably skip pudding and leave while being glad I’m not in their shoes. My brother has a learning disability and at times had screaming fits when he was a child so I’m frowning at a few replies in this thread.
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Post by ABBEY1227 on Aug 14, 2019 1:42:45 GMT
I would probably just hurry up and finish, pay and then leave. Honestly, it depends on how loud and disruptive the kid really is. If it isn’t preventing everyone in the vicinity from enjoying a quiet meal, then I’d say management should handle it before a customer starts to complain.
That's interesting.........it puts the management in the position of having to be preemptive in order to avoid other complaints.........but also opens the door in this day and age to be called out in the media for daring to ask anyone to control their child......even one with disabilities.
And the management is no doubt hoping others will complain so it isn't them that are the initiators of the 'abusive treatment' of a customer.
I'll tell a tale from many years ago, thekindercarebear........ we were at a sitdown diner type place with a mostly older clientele......... and this woman came in with her husband and F'd up kid. The woman was loud and demanding from the onset. Her kid kept making loud noises, I'm guessing autism mixed in with tourrettes possibly. And if that wasn't enough of a fun time for everyone else to enjoy.........about 3 minutes into the kid beginning to eat, he projectile vomited onto their entire table if full view of the rst of the place.
At no time did this woman apologize, show embarrassment or remorse and she tripled down by further abusing the waitstaff that tried to help clean up this kid's mess. It's a disgusting memory on many levels.
She was a real piece of shit who caught an earful from me as we left before our food even arrived.
When I was growing up, we were not allowed to stay out in a public setting if we started acting up at all. I can even remember when people with a newborn fussy baby would get up and leave Church and go outside to avoid bothering other people. Now? People actually believe they're doing the world a favor by sharing their 'miracle' of procreation no matter how annoying they may actually be.
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Post by thekindercarebear on Aug 14, 2019 1:49:37 GMT
I would probably just hurry up and finish, pay and then leave. Honestly, it depends on how loud and disruptive the kid really is. If it isn’t preventing everyone in the vicinity from enjoying a quiet meal, then I’d say management should handle it before a customer starts to complain.
That's interesting.........it puts the management in the position of having to be preemptive in order to avoid other complaints.........but also opens the door in this day and age to be called out in the media for daring to ask anyone to control their child......even one with disabilities.
And the management is no doubt hoping others will complain so it isn't them that are the initiators of the 'abusive treatment' of a customer.
I'll tell a tale from many years ago, thekindercarebear ........ we were at a sitdown diner type place with a mostly older clientele......... and this woman came in with her husband and F'd up kid. The woman was loud and demanding from the onset. Her kid kept making loud noises, I'm guessing autism mixed in with tourrettes possibly. And if that wasn't enough of a fun time for everyone else to enjoy.........about 3 minutes into the kid beginning to eat, he projectile vomited onto their entire table if full view of the rst of the place.
At no time did this woman apologize, show embarrassment or remorse and she tripled down by further abusing the waitstaff that tried to help clean up this kid's mess. It's a disgusting memory on many levels.
She was a real piece of shit who caught an earful from me as we left before our food even arrived.
When I was growing up, we were not allowed to stay out in a public setting if we started acting up at all. I can even remember when people with a newborn fussy baby would get up and leave Church and go outside to avoid bothering other people. Now? People actually believe they're doing the world a favor by sharing their 'miracle' of procreation no matter how annoying they may actually be.
as a person whose been hit by projectile vomit from my own kid, i sure as hell would not deal with another parent's projectile vomiting. gah.
when my kids were infants, we'd get up and leave if they were past the fussy stage.
when my kids were kids i sat them down at restaurants and told them what's what and backed it up with a spanking on the hand if needed.
now they are pretty well behaved so i have been told and we take them everywhere with us, cruises and outback.
that said i have a special place in me for families with kids that can't control being loud or speaking incoherently. their parents have enough to deal with, just let them try to have some semblance of normalcy.
that's all we can ask for sometimes, just some semblance of normalcy.
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